6 Feb
“Even the moon weeps with His fear.”
Hadhrat Ibn ‘Umar (Radhiyallaho anho) used to weep so much with the fear of Allah that he lost his eyesight. He said to somebody watching him: “You wonder at my weeping. Even the sun weeps with the fear of Allah.”
On another occasion, he is reported to have said: “Even the moon weeps with His fear.”
The Prophet (Sallallaho alaihe wasallam] once passed by one of the Sahabah who was reciting the Qur’an. When he came to the verse:

“And when the heaven splitteth asunder and becometh rosy like red hide”, ( LV:37)
the hair of his body stood on end, and he was nearly choked, with excessive weeping. He would cry and say:
“Alas; what will happen to me on the day when even the Heaven splitteth asunder. Woe is me!”
The Prophet (Sallallaho alai-he-wasallam) said to him:
“Your crying has made even the angels weep”. Once an Ansari sat and wept after Tahajjud, saying:
“I cry to Allah for protection from the fire of Hell”. The Prophet (Sallallaho alaihe wasallam] said to him: “You have made the angels weep today”.
Hadhrat Abdullah bin Rawahah (Radhiyallaho anho] was once weeping. His wife also began to weep on seeing him in this condition. He enquired of her:
“Why are you weeping?”
She replied: “Whatever makes you weep makes me weep too”.
He said: “The idea that I have to cross the bridge of Siraat across Hell makes me weep. I don’t know whether I shall be able to cross over or fall into Hell’*.
Zurarah bin Aufa was leading the Salaat in a Musjid. When he recited the verse:
“For when the Trumpet shall sound; Surely that day will be a day of anguish”! (LXXIV: 8 & 9)
he fell down and expired. People carried his body to his house.
Khulaid was saying his Salaat. During his Qiraat, when he reached the verse:
“Every soul will taste of death” (III: 185)
he began to repeat it again and again. He heard a voice from a corner of the room saying:
“How often are you going to repeat this verse? Your recitation has already caused the death of four Jinns”.
It is reported about another Sheikh that (while reciting the Qur’an) when he reached the verse:
“Then are they returned unto Allah, their Lord, the Just, is not His the Command?” (VI:62)
he gave out a cry, shivered and breathed his last.
There are many stories of this type. Fudhail, a famous Sheikh, says:
“Fear of Allah leads to everything that is good”. Shibli, another Sheikh of high position, says:
“Whenever I have felt Allah’s fear in me, I have found a fresh door of knowledge and wisdom opened for me”.
In a Hadith, it is said:
“Allah says; ‘ I do not impose two fears on my slave. If he does not fear me in this world, I shall give him fear in the next, and if he fears me in this world I shall save him from all fears in the Hereafter”.
The Prophet (Sallallaho alaihe wasallam) says:
“All things fear a person who fears Allah, while everything is a source of fear to him who fears somebody other than Allah.”
Yahya bin Ma’az (Rahmatullah alaih) says:
“If a man fears Hell as much as he is afraid of poverty then he may enter into Paradise.”
Abu Sulaiman Daarani (Rahmatullah alaih] says:
“There is nothing but ruin for a heart that is devoid of fear of Allah.”
The Prophet (Sallallaho alaihe wasallam) says:
“The face that gets wet with the smallest drop of tear from the fear of Allah is safe from entrance into the fire of Hell.”
He also said:
“When a Muslim shivers with the fear of Allah, his sins fall away from him like the falling leaves of a tree.”
The dear Prophet (Sallallaho alaihe wasallam) has said:
“A person weeping with fear of Allah cannot go to Hell until milk goes back into the teats (which is an impossibility)”.
Hadhrat Uqbah bin Amir (Radhiyallaho anho) once inquired of the Prophet (Sallallaho alaihe wasallam).
“What is the way to salvation?”
He replied: “Hold your tongue, stay indoors and cry over your sins.”
Hadhrat A’ishah (Radhiyallaho anha) once inquired of the Prophet (Sallallaho alaihe wasallam).
“Is there anybody among your followers who will go to Paradise without reckoning?”
“Yes,” replied the Prophet, “the person who often cries over his sins.”
There is another Hadith, in which my dear Master, Muhammad (Sallallaho alaihe wasallam) has said:
“No drop is more dear to Allah than two drops; a drop of tear shed in the fear of Allah, and a drop of blood shed in the path of Allah.”
It is said in a Hadith that seven persons would be under the shade of the Arsh on the day of judgement. One of them would be the person who remembered Allah when all alone by himself, and tears flowed from his eyes with awe of Allah and in repentance for his sins.
Hadhrat Abu Bakr (Radhiyallaho anho) says:
“One who can weep should do so, and one who cannot should make the appearance of a weeping person.”
It is reported of Muhammad bin Munkadir (Radhiyallaho anho) that, when he wept, he smeared his tears over his face and beard saying:
“I have heard that the fire of Hell does not touch the place touched by these tears.”
Thabit Banani was suffering from a disease of the eyes. His doctor said to him:
“Your eyes would be all right, provided you do not weep in future.”
He replied: “What is the good of an eye if it cannot shed tears.”
Yazid bin Maisarah (Rahmatullah alaih) says:
‘There can be seven reasons for weeping viz., extreme joy, insanity, extreme pain, horror, artifice, intoxication and fear of Allah. A single tear shed in the fear of Allah is sufficient to quench oceans of fire (of Hell).”
Hadhrat Ka’ab Ahbar (Radhiyallaho anho) says:
“By Him who holds my life in His (hands), I love to weep for fear of Allah, with tears flowing down my cheeks, rather than spend a mountain of gold in charity”
There are numerous other sayings of the Saints and other pious people, indicating that weeping because of the fear of Allah, and over one’s sins, is very effective and beneficial in attaining spiritual elevation. We should not, however, lose hope in Allah. His Mercy is all-embracing. Hadhrat ‘Umar (Radhiyallaho anho] says:
“If it be announced on the Day’of Judgement that all except one individual shall go to Hell, my expectation of the Mercy of Allah would make me hope that I may be that chosen one. Again, if it be announced on that day that all except one individual shall go to Paradise, then my sins would make me fear that I may be that condemned one.”
It is therefore necessary that we should combine fear and hope together in our hearts. Especially when the time of death is approaching, we should have more hope than fear. The Prophet (Sallallaho alaihe wasallam) says:
“None of you should die, except with a strong hope in the Mercy of Allah.”
When Imaam Ahmad bin Hanbal (Radhiyallaho anho) approached his end, he sent for his son and asked him to read to him the Ahaadith that induce hope in Allah and His Mercy.
5 Feb
The Roman Commander Accepted Islam in the Midst of Battlefield
Waaqidi reports that during the Battle of Yarmook, one of the most senior Roman commanders by the name of Jarja stepped forward from the line of soldiers and asked to meet Hadhrat Khaalid bin Waleed رضى الله عنه. Hadhrat Khaalid رضى الله عنه went to meet him and drew so close that the necks of their horses met.
The following conversation ensued:
Jarja: 0 Khaalid رضى الله عنه! I want you to tell me something, but do speak the truth and do not lie because a free man never lies. Do not deceive me either because a respectable person never deceives someone who trusts him. Has Allaah given your Nabi a sword from the heavens which he has given to you by virtue of which you defeat anyone against whom you draw it?
Hadhrat Khaalid رضى الله عنه: No
Jarja: Then why are you called the sword of Allaah (‘Sayfullaah’)?
Hadhrat Khaalid رضى الله عنه: Allaah sent His Nabi amongst us who preached to us.However, we expressed resentment and kept our distance from him. Even I was amongst those who treated him like a liar and ostracised him. Thereafter, Allaah seized our hearts and forelocks and guided us through him. We then pledged allegiance to him. He once said to me, ‘You are a sword from the swords of Allaah whom Allaah has drawn against the Mushrikeen.’ He then prayed to Allaah to assist me. This is why I am called the sword of Allaah. I am therefore amongst the sternest of Muslims against the Mushrikeen.
Jarja: 0 Khaalid رضى الله عنه! Towards what do you call?
Hadhrat Khaalid رضى الله عنه: We call people to testify that there is none worthy of worship but Allaah and that Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم is Allaah’s servant and Rasul. We also call them to accept everything that Rasulullaah صلى الله عليه وسلم has brought from Allaah.
Jarja: What about those who do not accept this?
Hadhrat Khaalid رضى الله عنه: They will have to pay the Jizya and we will protect them.
Jarja: What if they do not pay it?
Hadhrat Khaalid رضى الله عنه: We then declare war against them and fight.
Jarja: What is the status of a person who accepts what you say and enters the fold of your religion?
Hadhrat Khaalid رضى الله عنه: We all share the same status with respect to the injunctions that Allaah has made binding on us regardless of whether we have a high social standing or not and regardless of whether we accepted Islaam earlier or later.
Jarja: Will a person entering Islaam today have the same reward as yourself?
Hadhrat Khaalid رضى الله عنه: Certainly! In fact, his rewards shall be greater.
Jarja: How can such a person be rated equal to you when you have accepted Islaam before him?
Hadhrat Khaalid رضى الله عنه: We had no option but to accept Islaam because our allegiance was pledged while our Nabi صلى الله عليه وسلم was alive and in our midst. Revelation from the heavens would come to hid and he would recite the Qur’aan to us and show us miracles. For anyone who saw what we saw and who heard what we heard there was no option but to accept Islaam and to pledged allegiance to him. As for you people, you have not seen the miraculous events and signs (of his Nabuwaat) that we saw and heard. Therefore, whoever of you will enter this Deen with sincerity shall be better than us.
Jarja: I swear by AIlaah that you have been’honest with me and did not deceive me either.
Hadhrat KhaaIid رضى الله عنه:By Allaah! I have certainly spoken the truth and Allaah is Witness to the fact that ,I have responded to your questions to the best of my ability.
Jarja then turned his shield around (an indication that he did not intend fighting) and turned to Hadhrat Khaalid رضى الله عنه saying, “Teach me Islaam.” Hadhrat Khaalid رضى الله عنه took him to his tent, poured a waterbag of water over him (to assist him to bath) and then led him as he performed two Rakaahs salaah.Thinking that the muslims were scheming something when Jarja left with Hadhrat Khaalid رضى الله عنه, the Romans launched an offensive that caught the Muslims completely by surprise. Every Muslim regiment was rooted from their position besides the Muhaamiya regiment led by Hadhrat Ikrama bin Abi Jahal رضى الله عنه and Hadhrat Haarith bin Hishaam رضى الله عنه.The Romans were already in the midst of the Muslim camp when Hadhrat Khaalid رضى الله عنه mounted his horse with Jarja following closely. The Muslims called to each other and managed to regain their foothold. The Romans were then forced to return to their base.
Hadhrat Khaalid رضى الله عنه then gradually advanced the Muslim army until they crossed swords with the enemy. Hadhrat Khaalid رضى الله عنه and Jarja رضى الله عنه continuously fought the Romans from noon until the sun was about to set. (The fighting was so fierce that) The Muslims performed the Zuhr and Asr salaahs with indications.Jarja was mortally injured in the battle (and passed away the same day). The only salaah he therefore performed for Allaah were the two he performed with Hadhrat Khaalid . May Allaah shower His mercy on him.(1)
Note:
(1) Al Bidaaya wan Nihaaya (Vo1.7 Pg.12). Isaaba (Vol.1 Pg.260) contains some further commentary on the narration.
5 Feb
A moment of the life of Abu Bakr رضى الله عنه is better than the earth full of people like the Mu’min from the court of Fir’oun
While addressing the people, Hadhrat Ali رضى الله عنه once asked, “0 people! Who is the most courageous person?” “You are, 0 Ameerul Mu’mineen,” the people submitted. Hadhrat Ali رضى الله عنه then said, “Although I have defeated everyone who has confronted me, the most courageous person is Abu Bakr رضى الله عنه. We had constructed a shed for Rasulullaah صلى الله عليه وسلم (during the Battle of Badr) and then asked who would remain with Rasulullaah صلى الله عليه وسلم so that’the Mushrikeen do not attack him. By Allaah! Whenever a Mushrik even drew close to us Abu Bakr رضى الله عنه was there with his sword drawn near the head side of Rasulullaah صلى الله عليه وسلم. He attacked anyone who dared attack Rasulullaah صلى الله عليه وسلم .He was certainly the bravest of people.”
Hadhrat Ali رضى الله عنه continues, “I have seen the Quraysh grab hold of Rasulullaah صلى الله عليه وسلمwith one person treating him angrily and another shaking him while they said to hiim, ‘Do you make all the gods into one?!’ By Allaah! None of us dared go close to Rasulullaah صلى الله عليه وسلم (for fear of being beaten) besides Abu Bakr رضى الله عنه .He would hit one person, wrestle with another and shake someone else as he said,’Shame on you people! Will you kill a man for saying, ‘Allaah is my Rabb’?”‘Hadhrat Ali رضى الله عنه then lifted the shawl he was wearing and wept until his beard became wet. He then said, “I ask you to swear by Allaah whether the Mu’min from the court of Fir’oun was better or Abu Bakr رضى الله عنه.”When everyone remained silent, Hadhrat Ali رضى الله عنه said, “By Allaah! A moment of the life of Abu Bakr رضى الله عنه is better than the earth full of people like the Mu’min from the court of Fir’oun. While the Mu’min from the court of Fir’oun concealed his Imaan, Abu Bakr رضى الله عنه made his Imaan public.”(1)
Note:
(1) Bazzaar as quoted in Al Bidaaya wan Nihaaya (Vo1.3 Pg.271). Haythami (Vo1.9 Pg.47) has commented on the chain of narrators.
5 Feb
“Not everyone is suitable to be your friend…”
1 – Allah Said: {“Ah! Woe to me! If only I had never taken so-and-so as a friend! He indeed led me astray from the Reminder after it had come to me!”} [al-Furqan; 28-29]
2 – The Messenger of Allah said: “A person is upon the way of his friend. So, let one of you look to whom he keeps as a friend.” [‘Sahih al-Jami" (3545) and ‘as-Silsilah as-Sahihah' (927)]
3 – ‘Abdullah bin Ahmad bin Hambal said: “My father went out to Tarsus on foot, and he perfored two or three Hajjs on foot, and he was the most patient of people upon being alone.” [‘Tarjamat al-Imam Ahmad'; p. 18]
4 – Ibn al-Qayyim said: “Know that the greatest of losses is for you to be preoccupied with one who will bring you nothing but a loss in your time with Allah – the Mighty and Majestic – and being cut off from Him, a wasting your time with the person, a weakening of your energy, and the dispersing of your resolve. So, if you are tested with this – and you must be tested with this – deal with him according to how Allah would wish, and be patient with him as much as possible.
Get closer to Allah and His Pleasure by way of this person, and make your getting together with him something to benefit from, not something to incur a loss from. Be with him as if you are a man who is on a road who was stopped by another man, who then asks you to take him on your journey. Make sure that you are the one who gives him a ride, and that he is not the one giving you the ride. If he refuses, and there is nothing to gain from travelling with him, do not stop for him, bid him farewell, and do not even turn back to look at him, as he is a highway robber, regardless of who he really is. So, save your heart, be wary of how you spend your days and nights, and do not let the Sun set before you arrive at your destination.” [‘al-Wabil as-Sayyib'; p. 45]
5 – Ibn Jama’ah said: “So, it is upon the student of knowledge to abandon socialization, as abandoning it is from the most important things that the student of knowledge must do – let alone with members of the opposite gender – especially with those who spend most of their time in play, and spend little of their time in thought, as the nature of individuals can rob you.
The harms of socialization include the passing of life without any benefit, as well as the decline of wealth and religious practice, if this socialization were to occur with the wrong people. The student of knowledge should not mix except with either those who he can benefit, or can benefit from. And if he is offered the friendship of one who will waste his time with him, will not benefit him, will not benefit from him, and will not assist him in reaching his objective, he should politely end the relationship from the start before it progresses to something deeper, as when something becomes established, it becomes more difficult to change it.
There is a phrase that is constantly on the tongues of the Fuqaha’: ‘Repelling something is easier than removing it.’ So, if he requires someone to befriend, let that person be righteous, religious, pious, wary, intelligent, full of benefit, having little evil, good at complying, rarely conflicting, reminding him if he forgets, cooperating with him when he is reminded, helpful if he is in need, and comforting if he is in distress.” [‘Tadhkirat as-Sami' wal-Mutakallim'; p. 83]
6 – Ibn Qudamah al-Maqdisi said: “Know that not everyone is suitable to be your friend. You must verify that this potential friend has the neccessary characteristics that make friendship with him something to be desired. The one you seek to befriend must have five characteristics:
He must be intelligent, as there is no good in befriending an idiot, as he will only harm you when he wants to benefit you. By intelligent, we mean one who understands things as they are, either on his own, or if they are explained to him.
He must have good manners, and this is a must. One who is simply intelligent might be overcome by anger or desire, and obey his desire. Thus, there would be no benefit in befriending him.
He must not be a fasiq, as such a person would not fear Allah, and whoever does not fear Allah cannot be trusted.
He must not be an innovator, as his abundance of innovation is feared from befriending him.
He should not be eager for the dunya.”
[‘Mukhtasar Minhaj al-Qasidin'; p. 126-132]
5 Feb
The Backbone that Never Breaks
{“And from the people is he who worships Allah as if he were on an edge. If good befalls him, he is content with it. And if a trial befalls him, he turns back on his face. He loses both this world and the Hereafter. That is the clear loss.”} [al-Hajj; 11]
Commenting on this verse, Ibn Kathir said in ‘Tafsir al-Qur’an al-’Adhim’ (3/279):
“This means that he enters the religion on an edge. So, if he finds what he likes, he sticks with it. Otherwise, he retreats. al-Bukhari reported…that Ibn ‘Abbas said: “A man would come to Madinah. If his wife gave birth to a son and his mare gave birth to foals, he would say: “This is a good religion.” If his wife didn’t give birth and his mare didn’t either, he would say: “This is a terrible religion.”” And Ibn Abi Hatim reported…that Ibn ‘Abbas said: “Some bedouins would come to the Prophet and become Muslims and then they’d return to their homelands. If they returned to a year of rain, produce, and good children being born, they would say: “This religion of ours is good. So, stick to it.” If they came back to a year of hunger, bad children being born, and drought, they would say: “There is no good in this religion of ours.” So, Allah revealed this verse.”
…And ‘Abd ar-Rahman bin Zayd bin Aslam said: “This is in regards to the hypocrite. If everything is going well for him in his life, he is consistent in his worship. If things change and go bad for him, he goes back and wavers in his worship except when things are going good. So, if a trial, hardship, test, or inconvenience befalls him, he abandons his religion and returns to kufr.”
” In ‘Fi Dhilal al-Qur’an’ (4/2412), Sayyid Qutb commented on this verse by saying:
“Even if this addresses the Islamic call back then, it is an example that is repeated in every generation – this person who weighs his belief using the scales of profit and loss, thinking that he is engaged in some sort of business deal… Belief is the firm backbone in the life of the believer.
The world crashes around him, and he remains firm on this support column. The events going on and the pressures existing around him push down on him, and he remains holding firmly to this rock that cannot be shaken. The crutches fall from under him, and he leans on this foundation that cannot be moved from its place or swept away. This is the value of belief in the life of the believer.
Therefore, it is a must for him to stand up straight on it, be sure of it, confident in it, not shaky in it, and not waiting for any reward for it, as it in itself is a reward. This is because it is the protective force that he turns to and the supporting column that he leans on. Yes, it is itself a reward for one opening his heart up to the light and going after guidance.
As a result, Allah grants him this belief and faith for him to turn to for support and assurance. It is itself a reward whose value the believer realizes when he sees the confused, distraught people around him blown about and thrown around by the wind, engulfed in anxiety – while his belief keeps his heart tranquil, his feet firm, his mood calm, and his connection to Allah. He is confident as a result of this connection.
As for the type of person mentioned in this verse, he turns his belief into a business deal: {“…If good befalls him, he is content with it.…”} Here, he says that it is good to have faith. He is gaining some benefit, things look good, he is picking his crops, he is profiting from his deal, and he can stand up to the wind. {“… And if a trial befalls him, he turns back on his face. He loses both this world and the Hereafter…”} He loses this world through the trial that he was afflicted with and was unable to exercise patience and hold himself together in the face of, and did not turn to Allah during. He loses the Hereafter due to his reversing course and his abandonment of his beliefs and the guidance that was made so easily available for him.
And the Qur’an depicts such a person as worshipping Allah “on an edge,” shaky in his beliefs, shaky in his worship. It depicts this state as the impending physical movement of one who is prone to collapse at the first hint of pressure. This person reverses course when he is simply touched with trouble, and his standing on the edge is simply a prelude to him going back from what he was upon and collapsing. The measurement of profit and loss is something that belongs in business, not your beliefs.
‘Aqidah is a truth that should be adopted simply on account of what it is – the reaction of the heart that has opened itself up to light and guidance that has no choice but to react with whatever it encounters. So, this belief carries its reward in its nature, due to the confidence, tranquility, and pleasure it contains. So, it doesn’t look for reward from anything other than itself. The believer worships his Lord out of gratitude for being guided, for the confidence that comes along with being close to Him. If any reward were to come, this would be from the favor of Allah due to this person’s faith and worship! The believer doesn’t test his Lord. From the start, he accepts whatever He Decrees for him, surrenders from the start to whatever he will experience, is pleased from the start with whatever ease or hardship comes his way. It is not a business deal between a buyer and seller. Rather, it is the submission of the Creation to the Creator – the One who runs his affairs and was the reason for his existence in the first place.
The one who reverses course when he is touched with trouble endures a loss in which there is no doubt: {“…That is the clear loss…”} He loses the tranquility and confidence and calmness and pleasure, in addition to losing his money, family, health, or any of the other material possessions that Allah tests people through – He tests their confidence in Him, their patience in the face of these tests He brings, their own sincerity to Him, and their willingness to accept His Decree. This person also loses the Hereafter and the pleasures and closeness to Allah it contains…what a loss!”
He continues:
“…And Allah presents for the believers something better than whatever this life can give you, even if you lose whatever it gives you during the course of your trials and tribulations: {“Truly, Allah will admit those who believe and do good deeds to gardens underneath which rivers flow. Indeed, Allah does what He Wills.”} So, whoever is touched by any type of trouble or test, he should stay strong and not become shaky. He should manifest his confidence in the Mercy and help of Allah and His ability to remove all hardships and compensate and reward for them…”
5 Feb
From Whom Did Islamic Knowledge Originate?
“…And the Religion, Fiqh, and knowledge spread between the people from the companions of Ibn Mas’ud, the companions of Zayd bin Thabit, the companions of ‘Abdullah bin ‘Umar, and the companions of ‘Abdullah bin ‘Abbas. So, all the knowledge that is with the people is generally from the companions of these four.
As for the people of Madinah, their knowledge is from the companions of Zayd bin Thabit and ‘Abdullah bin ‘Umar.
As for the people of Makkah, their knowledge is from the companions of ‘Abdullah bin ‘Abbas.
As for the people of Iraq, their knowledge is from the companions of ‘Abdullah bin Mas’ud.
Ibn Jarir said: “It has been said that Ibn ‘Umar and a group of the Messenger of Allah’s Companions who lived after him in Madinah would issue verdicts based on the madhhab of Zayd bin Thabit and the knowledge they had acquired from him that was not addressed by what they had learned from the Messenger of Allah’s words.” …’Abd ar-Rahman bin Zayd bin Aslam said: “When the ‘Abdullahs died – ‘Abdullah bin ‘Abbas, ‘Abdullah bin az-Zubayr, and ‘Abdullah bin ‘Amr bin al-’As – all the knowledge that was present in all the lands was left in the hands of their servants.
So, the scholar of the people of Makkah was ‘Ata’ bin Abi Rabah, the scholar of Yemen was Tawus, the scholar of Yamamah was Yahya bin Abi Kathir, the scholar of Kufah was Ibrahim, the scholar of Basrah was al-Hasan, the scholar of Sham was Makhul, and the scholar of Khurasan was ‘Ata’ al-Khurasani – all except Madinah, as Allah had reserved this position for a Qurashi. So, the scholar of Madinah was Sa’id bin al-Musayyab, without dispute.” Sa’id bin al-Musayyab said: “I passed by ‘Abdullah bin ‘Umar. So, I greeted him and went on my way. I then turned and looked at all of his companions, and he said: “If the Messenger of Allah had seen this, it would have made him very happy,” and he raised his hands and pointed them to the sky.” And Sa’id bin al-Musayyab would stay up all night with Abu Hurayrah, and he married Abu Hurayrah’s daughter. When he saw him, he would say: “I ask Allah to gather you and I in the marketplaces of Paradise,” and this is why he narrated in abundance from him…”
['I'lam al-Muwaqqi'in'; 1/17-18]
5 Feb
Recognizing the Bounds of Our Mannerisms
“…Mannerisms have limits. When these limits are crossed, this is transgression. When they are fallen short of, this is deficiency and disgrace.
Anger has a limit: and it is to be bold while being above having negative and deficient traits, and this is the perfect form of anger. If this limit is exceeded, you become a transgressor. If you fall short of it, you will be a coward and will not be able to raise yourself above negative traits.
Covetousness has a limit: it is to take all you need from this world and what it has to offer you. When you fall short of this limit, it becomes disgrace and wastefulness. When you exceed this limit, you end up wanting what you shouldn’t want.
Envy has a limit: and it is to compete in becoming perfect and to excel such that your rival is unable to excel over you. When this limit is exceeded, you transgress and oppress in which you wish that the good things are taken away from the one you envy and are keen to harm him. When you fall short of this limit, you become low, weak in aspiration, and you belittle yourself. The Prophet (صلى الله عليه و سلم) said: “There should be no envy except in regards to two things: a man who was granted wealth by Allah and he was able to spend it for the sake of the truth, and a man who was granted wisdom by Allah and he takes it and teaches it to the people.” So, this is an envy of competition, where the envious one pushes himself to be like the one he envies without wishing that he is deprived of the good things that are with him.
5 Feb
Every Action Demands Undivided Attention
One problem many of us face is that we want to do so much at once, and thus become overwhelmed in our thoughts trying to establish exactly what we should be doing and what our obligations are at a given point in time. This leads us to focus on what we can’t accomplish moreso than what we can accomplish. This can be well and good, and as Ibn al-Jawzi said, a person can be rewarded for his intentions more than for his actions.
However, the point of intending is to be productive and extract something physical from that intention. Part of being productive is to have a methodical approach as to when to focus on what. For example, if your worship and intentions for specific efforts are organized and you properly place your focus where and when it should be, you’ll find yourself accomplishing much more as a Muslim, no matter if you’re a scholar who teaches, a caller to Allah who motivates, or a general worshipper who simply wants to get closer to your Lord.
Without wanting to get into immense detail, I thought it sufficient to present a few words to to illustrate this that Ibn al-Qayyim had written in ‘Madarij as-Salikin’ (1/188): “…They say that the best worship is to do what will please the Lord at every time in accordance with what that particular time calls for.
So, the best acts of worship during the time of Jihad is Jihad, even if this leads to abandoning certain rituals such as night prayer, fasting, etc. In fact, this applies even if you are to not pray a complete obligatory prayer as you would in times of safety and calm.
And the best thing to do when you have a guest, for example, is to see to his rights as a guest and to preoccupy yourself with that instead of the recommended rituals you would usually engage in at the time.
Such is also the case in fulfilling the rights of your wife and family.
The best thing to do during the early morning hours is to be preoccupied with prayer, Qur’an, supplication, remembrance of Allah, and asking His Forgiveness.
The best thing to do when teaching a student or ignorant person is to completely turn your attention towards teaching him.
The best thing to do during the call to prayer is to leave whatever rituals you are engaged in and to occupy yourself with repeating after the one making the call.
The best thing to do during the five prayers is to try your best in carrying them out in the best possible manner and to rush to perform them right away, and to go out to the mosque – even if it is far – is better.
The best thing to do when someone needs help physically or financially is to busy yourself with helping that person, relieving his distress, and to place this as a priority over your private worship that you’d usually be engaged in.
The best thing to do when reciting the Qur’an is to have your heart and mind present in order to reflect over and understand it as if Allah is personally addressing you with it. So, to have your heart present to understand and reflect over it and to have the zeal to implement its commands is greater than the attentiveness of the heart of one who has received a message from the ruler to that message.
The best thing to do when standing at ‘Arafah is to exert yourself in being humble before Allah, supplicating, and remembering Him instead of fasting.
The best thing to do during the first ten days of Dhu al-Hijjah is to increase in worship, especially saying ‘Allahu Akbar,’ ‘La ilaha illa Allah,’ and ‘al-hamdu lil-Lah.’ This is better here than the Jihad that is not an individual obligation.
The best thing to do during the last ten nights of Ramadan is to stay in the mosque and to seclude yourself in it without mixing with others and being distracted by them. This is to the point that it is better than teaching them and practicing the Qur’an with them according to many of the scholars.
The best thing to do when you have a brother who is sick or dying is to visit him, attend his funeral, and to prefer this over your private worship or social activities.
And the best thing to do when a disaster befalls you or people hurt you is to fulfill the obligation of having patience while continuing to interact with them and not running from them, since the believer who mixes with people and is patient despite their harm to him is better than the believer who doesn’t mix with them and isn’t harmed by them.
And the best thing you can interact with them in is whatever is good, and this is better than to seclude yourself from them in such a case. As for bad things, it is better to seclude yourself from them in such a case. However, if you know that mixing with in this case will help remove or reduce the bad, it is better to mix with them than to abandon them.
So, the best thing to do in every time and situation is whatever will please Allah at that particular time and situation and to focus on the foremost obligation at that particular time and whatever it necessitates and requires…”
So, while Ibn al-Qayyim’s words above mention specific actions, you hopefully get the point. The attitude he is promoting here is to focus on what’s in front of you and needs to be done then and there, as this is the best way to please Allah in that particular situation. If you employ this attitude in your day to day activities in general and your service to Allah and Islam in particular, you’ll find that you’ll get much more out of yourself.
30 Jan
‘Tell me who is the bravest of men?’
‘Hazrat Ali said: ‘Tell me who is the bravest of men?’ They said, ‘You.’ He said, ‘As for me, I never encountered anyone but that I took my due from him, but tell me who is the bravest of men?’ They said , ‘We don’t know. Who is it?’ He said, ‘Abu Bakr. On the Day of Badr we made a shelter from the sun for the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and then we said, “Who will be with the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, so that none of the idolaters may fall upon him?” By Allah, none of us drew near except for Abu Bakr who brandished a sword over the head of the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. No one fell upon him but that he in turn fell upon him. So he is the bravest of men.’
‘Hazrat Ali, may Allah be pleased with him, said: I saw the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and Quraysh grabbed him. One held him and another threw him down and they were saying, ‘Are you the one who has made the gods into one god?’ By Allah, none of us approached except Abu Bakr, striking this one and restraining that one, and throwing down another saying, ‘Woe to you! Will you kill a man because he says, “My Lord is Allah?”‘ Then ‘Ali raised a cloak which he was wearing and wept until his beard was wet and said, ‘I adjure you by Allah! Is the believer of the people of Fir’awn better or Abu Bakr?’ People were silent. He said, ‘Will you not answer? By Allah, an hour of Abu Bakr is better than a thousand hours of the like of the believer of the people of Fir’awn. He was a man who concealed his iman, and this was a man who was open about his iman.’
‘Urwah ibn az-Zubayr said: I asked ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Amr ibn al-’As about the worst thing that the idolaters did to the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. He said, ‘I saw ‘Uqbah ibn Abi Mu’ayt who came to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, while he was praying, and he placed his cloak about his neck and seriously tried to throttle him. Then Abu Bakr came and defended him and said, “Would you kill a man because he says, ‘My Lord is Allah,’ and he has come to you with clear signs from your Lord?”‘
Abu Bakr said: ‘On the Day of Uhud everyone fled from the Messenger of Allah, and I was the first to return.’ The rest of the hadith is in the Musnad which al-Haytham ibn Kulayb narrated.
‘A’ishah, may Allah be pleased with her, said: When the companions of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, gathered, and they were thirty-eight men, Abu Bakr pressed upon the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, to be open and public. He said, ‘Abu Bakr, we are few.’ Abu Bakr wouldn’t stop urging the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, until the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, made things public. The Muslims went into every of the Mosque (of Makkah), every man among his own kinsfolk, and Abu Bakr stood up among the people addressing them, so that he was the first public speaker to invite people to Allah and His Messenger. The idolaters leapt upon Abu Bakr and the Muslims, and they beat them, in every corner of the Mosque, very severely.
‘Hazrat Ali, may Allah be pleased with him, said: When Abu Bakr accepted Islam, he was open about his Islam and he invited people to Allah and to His Messenger, may Allah bless him and grant him peace.
Transcribed from: Tarikh al-Khulafa‘ (The History of the Khulafa) | Jalal ad-Din as-Suyuti